so i know what it is and everything.but like when does the bleeding happen...is it during sex or after sex.?and like does it get on the guy....ew. ive heard its possible to pop it with a tampon, but its not likely this will happen..how can you find out if it has.?cause like i am a virgin and i want mine to be popped before i have sex cause i think that itd just be straight up embarrassing much like this question, if it happened by a guy...gimme all your information, please and thank you dearest!