This girl is one of my best friends... and though I had a crush on her when we first met 2 years ago I hadn't ever thought of us dating up until recently, when I realized how much I've missed her since I had to transfer colleges. She drives up to visit me whenever she can (about once a month), I take a bus to see her whenever I can as well, we talk every day... but we just can't spend that much time together anymore and I'm not sure if this hurt is love or just missing a close friend =(

Is it possible to confuse the two? Or are they like the same?