i got in my first accident the other day. it is not terrible but i went to a shop and they said the car is close to being totalled. i have to talk to my insurance and have they do a full damage assesment or something like that. i sister in law says i should let them total the car and get money and buy a new car. but the car is my brothers car which he bought about 2 weeks before he went in the hospital and later passed away so i kinda has a sentimental value to it as well. what should i do and what is the best way to go with all this?