Gay guys, have you ever hit/been hit by your boyfriend?

[AnthonyD]

When my boyfriend and I argue it sometimes gets physical and I'm not sure if it's normal or not.

Okay, I've been digesting all your comments but I still don't think I would classify w/e is going on between me and him as abuse. It's only ever happened like 3 times in the heat of the moment and he always regrets it immediately afterward. He's the youngest of 4 brothers so he's kind of use to lashing out when getting into an argument. I know that doesn't excuse anything but still...

[thynight]

Its not normal. I would even say its not love, but that wasn't the question.

[nathan]

Just like with straight couples it's domestic violence and unacceptable. I suggest you get out of the relationship now.