I'm secretly in love with my sister in law. I feels like she shows interest

• Feb 9, 2009

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jerseyboy

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at times.? I know it's wrong but I've always loved her. However I would never jeopardize her relationship with her husband. Should I continue to harmlessly flirt or just tell her how I feel. I would just tell her so I could get it off my chest.
I wish she had a profile on here and she would respond through here. Even if she is against it. I need to know.
It's my wife's sister

 

• Feb 9, 2009

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Sean

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just try your best to move on. dont even think about it.

 

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orangeblossom116

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No. Don't do it. Run away. Move, get away from her. Seriously...it's bad news. Stop hanging around her. Transfer jobs. There are so many things at stake here. Suck it up, bury your feelings and look for a better girl. She's not "The One" if she's with your brother. RUN AWAY.

 

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mupmpmssmmm

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Get it off your chest, and mate, its not wrong. I mean there are worse cases, you aren't related to her by blood, you won't harm anybody, just tell her. Nothing can stand in your way get if off your chest!

 

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BigBoh

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dont tell her, it may be disturbing. You might get the sh it beat out of u by the husband, and u would make any other family gathering EXTREMELY ackward

 

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You do not want to tell her..
It will not get anything off your chest.
It will make things awkward and create problems in your family.
As hard as it may be, you need to channel your feelings into a woman that is available to you.

Can you talk to you father? An older, more mature man might be able to help you resolve these feelings but I promise you talking to your sister in law is NOT the solution.
best of luck to you

 

• Feb 9, 2009

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jigfam

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What a charming couple you both are. She's married, you're married. End of story. Back off and leave her alone.

 

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Cheyenne

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Leave the drama on Desperate Housewives. Get your own girl.

 

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cheeriez18

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No don't say anything... she's spoken for! Besides I'm sure someone else will come along and spark your interest!