Am I unreasonable for asking my husband to give up his Blackberry?

[Samantha]

I gave up my blackberry, only because it kept freezing and losing texts and stuff. Then I went to the iphone.

Seriously, so what. Find other things to fight about.

[Jeff]

He shouldn't HAVE to give it up just to make you happy. If you did it great, I'm sure he appreciates it but it doesn't mean that he has to do the same. I'm sure there's a compromise in there somewhere, maybe he can cut $30 a month out with something else. It's not so black-and-white, and looking at it like that will only cause issues. There's nothing wrong with him keeping it if he can save the money another way. If he just flat out refuses to help in any way then yea you have a right to be up in his face about it, he can't expect you to be the only one making sacrifices. If he wants you to be the only one doing it, time to step it up and let him know you won't be with him if he can't participate in the relationship.