this summer? We (my sister and best friend and I) are going to Algona, Iowa. My best friend has a boyfriend who lives in Spencer, which is only a county away, but I really don't want to go there. She's always bragging about how he lives in a "gated community" and he has a guard at his house. He also supposedly owns his own computer store (he's 17) and apparently his dad is a lawyer and his mom is a doctor. I really don't want to go there but my sister keeps insisting we go there to meet him. I know they would flirt the whole time, she would be a total bitch to me, and it would just be totally awkward. I don't know how to tell them I don't want to drive over there. It would ruin the whole trip, I fear. Help???