Well the sex was good at first, and it's okay when we do have sex, but it always is one sided to his favor because i always seem like the one doing a "job" or either on the receiving end. I had a rather wild and experimental sex life when i was single, which was fun and would not want to return to that whole lifestyle, but how can i ask my bf to try different things when he says that He should be enough so i should not want or need a toy to have sex?