We work together at a bar, and have been hanging out/dating for like 2 months. She always complains I don't ever try that hard or make the 1st effort to talk or make plans. But, I think we hang out a lot, or at least enough in my head (2 or 3 times a week is plenty right?).

So I thought I'd do something nice for her for Christmas. I got her a bottle of Kahlua (she really likes White Russians) and a $100 gift certificate to a nice health spa to get a professional massage since she works on her feet all day.

I invited her over to my place on Christmas Eve, cooked her a nice dinner, then gave her her presents. She really liked it and wouldn't quit saying thanks and was smiling all night.

But... she didn't me squat. Nothing. Zilch. She just kept saying, "oh my god, I'm so sorry I didn't get you anything."

What would you think if that happened to you? I pretty much want to break up with her now. What should I do?