i need some advice about a guy picking me up in his car? and what to

[StoryN]

tell my parents? ? i told my guy friend that we were going to hang out at the mall and he said sure, but i dont know how to tell my mom that he wants to pick me up in his car. PS my parents are like the crazy ones really paranoid about guys i talk to even though im just friends with him.

[ChristineS]

I'll tell you a secret shall I.

Your mom and dad desperately love you, you lucky, lucky child.

Their fear is that he will drive too fast and kill you.

Why not introduce him to your parents first and let them get to know him.

The problem is you see, we have to take what we are given when it comes to children. And sometimes we end up to someone who is a cent short of a dollar. And therefore doesn't think the whole thing through.

[t:kristen]

Um, just tell them he's a really good friend and you're going to hang out at the mall (where there's hundreds of other people) (; Just explain it all to them, don't leave anything out, make sure you stress the word F R I E N D. I mean that's all you guys are, so I honestly don't think it's a big deal.

[farfromfl]

Why not just have them drop you off? Is it such a big deal?

[IanF]

Assuming he is a good guy and has a clean record, tell them he hasn't gotten into any accidents or have any speeding tickets. Tell them he's a responsible guy and that they can trust you. Then give him a bj on the way to the mall!

[bekstaa]

just don't tell them and tel him to meet you somewhere so that your mum thinks that you are just going out to the mall but you are actually going to meet him