BuddyChrist
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That is a very difficult life changing decision. Don't you think you are too young to realize that you are gay??
Do any of you 13-16 year olds even know if you are really gay?
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I'm 14, and I can promise you that I am not attracted to guys. We know we're gay the same way the straight people know they're straight. Either ask them if they are sure that they are STRAIGHT, or stop asking us. It's just as much of a 'life changing decision' for- wait. It's NOT a decision! But, pretending that it's a decision like you said, it's just as much of a life changing decision to 'decide' you're straight. And plus, being gay is safer. No unwanted pregnancies =). So it'd be a better "decision" to be gay.
But it's not a choice, just to make that clear.
But it's not a choice, just to make that clear.
so many people (at school) already assumed i was a lesbian ;DI'm 17 but I was fully aware that I was gay by age 14. It's not that hard to know what sexually arouses you and what doesn't. When I was younger, I used to always think it would go away when I got older, but it hasn't and I am definitely gay. And it isn't really a "decision" per se, it's just what happens to a person.
I agree that nobody can know their sexuality at such a young age, but i think it all really depends on their experiences. If they already have experimented and have found it favorable over heterosexual sex, then perhaps they can know they are gay. Me, i am bi and i only recently decided upon that. It took time and experimentation, but i finally made that decision at 18yrs. But like i said, it all depends on personal experience.
Well, I knew I liked guys since I was 6 or 7. I didn't know about different sexualities until I was 10, I identified as bi at 13, and as gay at 17.
Most gays realize they are gay at a very early age. Usually before 10 years of age. Saying that 13-year-olds are too young to realize they're gay is like saying 15-year-olds are too young to realize they're black, or short, or left-handed. It just doesn't make any sense. =3
Most gays realize they are gay at a very early age. Usually before 10 years of age. Saying that 13-year-olds are too young to realize they're gay is like saying 15-year-olds are too young to realize they're black, or short, or left-handed. It just doesn't make any sense. =3
AbundanceIsMine
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I knew I was gay when I was 9 years old! You are never too young to realize your sexuality. I had crushes on boys when I was in the 2nd grade! If straight people are never too young to realize there sexuality why should we be too young, you know?
You are not born gay
I SERIOUSLY disagree with you there.
So if you're "born" gay is your genetics passed down to your children and their gay too and the generations to come.
But oh yeah, that's right... the populations of gays have been high for centuries.
Not a chance, homosexuality was first introduced in the Ancient Greek civilization because men adored other men's bodies. Sad to see a guy called "Buddy Christ" asked such a question.
Me personally, I support God's wishes and the Bible and oppose any form of same-sex intimacy, marriage and sex change.
I SERIOUSLY disagree with you there.
So if you're "born" gay is your genetics passed down to your children and their gay too and the generations to come.
But oh yeah, that's right... the populations of gays have been high for centuries.
Not a chance, homosexuality was first introduced in the Ancient Greek civilization because men adored other men's bodies. Sad to see a guy called "Buddy Christ" asked such a question.
Me personally, I support God's wishes and the Bible and oppose any form of same-sex intimacy, marriage and sex change.