I haven't had sex with my husband in over a year and he's complaining?

Bend over.

If you keep that up, you will lose him. I am not sure why you are not in the mood, you are only 22. Are you thinking of another guy? If not, you should be doing it everyday. Both of you need to spice up your life. Go out and do some role playing. ie) You both go to a bar but sit separately, he approaches you and you giggle and except his invitation to have a drink with him. After that, you get a hotel room and do the wild thing with ice cubes, strawberries and chocolate syrup, etc. Enjoy!

If you are annoyed, imagine the poor guy with no sex. If I am not getting from my wife for that long. I would look elsewhere to release my tension. Maybe you two are made for each other, see a counsellor or get a divorce.

You're messed up in the head and obviously not interested in being a good spouse. He should leave you and find someone that really likes him.