My husband and I recently made a very difficult decision. Neither of our parents are happy about it and his parents are no longer going to be coming for Thanksgiving. The children were looking forward to their visit. Its not often that children are with both sets of grandparents all together. My parents are still coming they realize that their grandchild shouldn’t be punished just because they don’t agree with a decision that we have made. How can I let the kids down gentle and assure them their grandparents not coming has nothing to do with them?