Picking Up Boys Online?

[MelissaD]

For about a year now, I've been "hooking up" with guys I meet online. We'd email each other, chat on AIM, anything but call on the phone or meet in person. I've always remained anonymous, though I did share my pictures with them once I was sure that I don't know them in real life. I don't know why I do this, but somehow it makes me feel safe to flirt with boys virtually rather than in person. But I've never wanted an actual relationship with any of them...it's all just for fun.

Is this wrong of me to do? Like, hooking a boy in and then seducing him I guess, but then leave him in the dust afterward?

I just turned 18 btw, if age matters.

[KatieBug]

nothin wrong with it cause its not in person tho u do need to get more comfortble bein around guys in person cause u dont want to mess up ur mind like that
but other than that nothing wrong

[Kfosho]

i don't think you should do it
i mean what kind of pleasure do you get out of leading guys on
i mean yah its fun, but i think some guys really take it personally

and plus very dangerous! have you watched the movie "joy ride" well...you should kind of similar to what you are doing
well yah i mean what if they come after you, you don't want that to happen, so you should not do it anymore.

[AustinK]

I would like to do that sometime. jk. no it isn't bad if there like most guys they probably think that its really sexy.

[Kfosho]

i don't think you should do it
i mean what kind of pleasure do you get out of leading guys on
i mean yah its fun, but i think some guys really take it personally

and plus very dangerous! have you watched the movie "joy ride" well...you should kind of similar to what you are doing
well yah i mean what if they come after you, you don't want that to happen, so you should not do it anymore.

[Hawaiiantgurl]

uh yea u dont want that..
its called karma..
i did that and i got played too..
and i knew it...

[sendyg]

im 17 yrs old..and my opinion honestly is eff it do it any way.
I mean i would just for the hell of it and feeling safe is a plus.

Its pretty kool to think some guy that doesnt know you or your past or future thinks oyur a pretty chill, cute person...and i dont think its a bad thing in seducing them because im pretty sure those guys dont take the flirting real serious to the point they want a relationship..i mean come on their guys...and to top it all off their strangers...

so why not have fun online..its not a bad thing...

its better online then in person...

so i dont think its a bad thing..have fun with it ya know...the guys are most definitely are..

[kippyelover]

I think that's terrible. They have feelings, too, but if that's how you feel better about yourself, then do what you want.

[naughty]

I'm 33 and I do that too, OMG you wouldn't believe what some guys have written! It's a real turn on but they know it's just for fun so don't sweat it!

[AndreaS]

is silly task to do