Can some one please tell me how to use PC suite to connect to my pc from my nokia 6600 via bluetooth. I have done the following.

Installed Bluetooth
Tried connecting & pair.Its working paired.I can receive files & send files from phone to PC,but evrytime i need choose to receive file on PC.

when i open pc suite it says "THIS IS THE FIRST TIME YOU HAVE USED PC SUITE. PLEASE ATTACH YOUR NOKIA 6600 TO THE PC AND PRESS OK TO CONTINUE OR PRESS CLOSE TO EXIT PC SUITE"

Thats the problem,my pc suite is not working properly.I need to backup my phone data,contacts etc.Also like to send SMS.

I have bluetoot dongle-Techcom installed & its detects the Nokia6600

I reinstalled PC suite from the CD,does not work.
I tried from PC suite downloaded from the nokia site-does not work.