MY HUSBAND WAS PICKED UP TRYING TO SOLICIT A PROSTITUTE.
I had no clue. I believed we had a good marriage he has been my best friend we also have children.
He really is a good man but How do You get past something like this How do you know they will not do this again?
He told me this only happened too times and well of cores the last time he got Busted. also recently he got a really bad infection we are going to the doctor tonight to find out what it is BOY I HOPE IT IS NOT AN STD. and he gets pissy with me for being moody now am I wrong for feeling Like how dare him? he had to tell me case he did this to same night before my terminally ill father landed at the air port for his first visit in 28 years and most likely his last one.
when we had met I was done with dating all together See I had some Bad relationships ships in the past and one failed marriage already and a Child from that so I really was not up for all of this crap again.
It took me some time before I felt safe and well I never doubted him and well now what do I do?
If I do not think about it I am OK for a bit and I put on a mask for the kids sake. but now there is no trust I miss that so much never worried about what the other on is doing. knowing they are doing nothing wrong. now All I can do is wonder at times If he is or has again
and just say what ever .he says he thinks he has a sex addition and I say he is married sex addition to what hookers !
I am a stay at home mother of 3 and so dam confused some family say stay some people say go How and What about the kids.
My family reminds me of what he did for me and what A good man and father he is I know. and my friend say he will do it again and do you really think he did it just the two times he said he did ?
and there are very many possibilities he did I do know But I am trying to think of the children he sure has not been. I don't what to hurt him I love his so very much and really hate what he did. he was not like any of the others I have been with in the past.
So I thought! I feel like I have been living a lie.
I am in so much conflicted. I really did not react at all to this hole thing he said that I was scary calm. I just think there is nothing left of my hart any more,also we are doing marriage counseling. he Doe's want it to work I just don't know if I do? The poor kids is all I can think. DAM Cheaters!!! They really don't know what they are doing to the Innocent ones!! Any advice is appreciated Thank you all.
I am re-posting in hopes that I fixed all the spelling Errors.
Chris
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