I have been hearing quite a few people bad mouth mystery and his methods. To be honest the show teaches guys who do want a "relationship" about how to attract a women needs. But i have been hearing that people say he is just trying to teach every man out there to manipulate women and get in there pants. Not true all of those contestants are looking for real love but they just don't know how to do it. To be honest i wish i was on that show it give good info for guys who want a real relationship and how to achieve it,and keep it.