Last year I met someone on Yahoo Answers. We began emailing each other ALL DAY LONG everyday while we were at work. After about a month he asked me for my phone number. He lives 1000 miles away from me. He also disclosed that he has a live-in girlfriend. At the time I was separated from my husband. We began talking on the phone almost every night (for hours) in addition to still emailing all day at work. At times things got really hot and intense. After about 5 months, my husband and I started getting closer and decided to give our marriage another shot. I told my "internet friend" and he said he was happy for me and "kind of relieved". He seemed to really focus on his relationship w/ his g-friend and the two of us remained friends. We stopped talking on the phone, but still emailed all day long at work. In many ways I feel like he is one of my best friends. He knows so much about me. He made a flirtatious remark to me a few weeks ago, but then took it back b/c he said "he respects the fact that I'm married." My problem is that I can't stop thinking about him. I think about him ALL the time. Things are going great in my marriage, but I can't get this other man out of my mind. I know that he is trying to focus on us just being friends now, but it is very difficult for me. What should I do? Part of me has an extreme urge to jump on the next plane to his city!