am i gay or not or is this a phase?

• Oct 11, 2008

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I have always went with boys all my life and then when i turned 15 i was attracted to this girl she has been gay since she was 13 she now is currently 17 i am 16 i told her that i like her and she told me thats cool and everything but is that something i really want we talked about it and everything and then a couple of mnths later we went out i love her alot and i care about her what do you guys think of this situation

 

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NBAFAN

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If you are not attracted to guys at all then you're gay. If you are attracted to guys then you're bi.

 

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i won't lie to you at one point i was really attracted to girls and in some ways i really am but i know i'm not gay because being with a girl would never satisfy me emotionally or physically, it took a while to figure it out and well. you have to admit girls are hot we have beautiful curves, hair and so on, it's okay to recognize that and not be gay. you have to look deep inside yourself and do some searching and figure it out for yourself. i really wish you the best of luck with this and i know it can be confusing and frustrating, sometimes talking with a good friend about it helps

 

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KrissKross

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You sound just confused

 

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there is no such thing as a "phase" or "confusion". you are in love, thats it. thats the reason why so many people find their best friends attractive, its cause of love!

 

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there is no such thing as a "phase" or "confusion". you are in love, thats it. thats the reason why so many people find their best friends attractive, its cause of love!

 

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yea you gay, so do what you do i like girls but i cant be in love with one i need a strong touch holding me so i can feel protected not a soft skinny arm on me. i like girls meaning nice body i like being sexual just for fun and it feels good.

 

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I think bisexuality in women is more common than people think.

I don't think the important issue here is determining if this is a phase or not. The important thing is to be true to yourself and let life happen.

 

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Harvey

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I think bisexuality in women is more common than people think.

I don't think the important issue here is determining if this is a phase or not. The important thing is to be true to yourself and let life happen.

 

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It is normal for a lot of young girls. It doesn't hurt to explore with her and see if you really are gay, or perhaps just a little bi, or even just going through a phase.