Parents have disowned me? Is this right at all? I'm 18 OF AGE (I live in California) to leave whenever I want I've told them ahead of time as it is the right thing to do but.. they said if I leave I'm not welcome back home and they disown me..is this right? I don't think it is right for them to do this (I have known him about 5 years and we met on the internet and they are calling me stupid to do something like this I know its risky but I feel its the right thing to do and we love each other verry much) so.. what should I do My Family before My Fiance? or My Fiance before My Family? I know most will say ''My Family'' but..I think its Selfish and Unfair of them to do this

What should I do... I want to be happy and live with My Fiance (he lives 4 states away) but I want to have something here too is that Selfish?...Please answer!...I'ts important i resolve this tonight....Thank you..