that recently I have heard him mention a lot. When I went to go read them, most of them said"Miss you today sweet heart" and "thanks for the kiss today" "Are you coming over?" etc. When I asked him, he deleted them and said that he was keeping a file of those text messages because they are from this other guy to this girl whom is her boss and want to keep them as ammunition if needed later for job security.
So I don't believe him, yes trust issue but can you blame me, he gets hom after 8:30pm close 10:00pm sometimes, and sometimes I can't get a hold of him for hours in a day.
So my ultimatum is to call nextel and get me original records of all text messages for the past three months or so and I want access to his e-mail account,
but what if he deletes any that I might need to know about?
And what if Nextel can't come up with the records, I have nothing else to go by.
He said he can have her call me, but of course I am not that stupid, I don't have to talk to her and will not believe anything she says.
Help please, need some sincere advice, we have a 3year old child and one on the way. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.
My main question is about my ultimatum, what if he is not able to produce anything to show me proof of what he said was going on?
I need sincere advise please, thank you.
This girl is his assistant, but the text messages are coming from my husbands manager whom is supposedly trying to get with this girl, so I am just getting pulled in all directions.
By the way I have asked him out right, been up all night trying to make sense of things.
He said NO! I checked his phone but all her text messages are deleted on the phone but could be viewed online that is the only reason I found out about them.
So I have to see the phone bill details and see if they are being forwarded like he says, but it does not make any sense.
Thanks for all your advice.
Actually I no longer have any records, I need to see if Nextel can produce them for me, so I can have proof and move forward with little boys.
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