It's like this, I am 17 years younger than him, and I like playing with him, you know, like give him the puppy eyes every now and then, and act silly and all that. But he doesn't like it, and he wants me to be and act serious all the time, and to grow up, and not to whine, but I don't do that infront of anyone, which means I'm not embarrassing him, it's just between us, I like to play the little girl, and if he doesn't like it, and wants me to grow up, why didn't he marry a woman his own age? I can't skip all these years and meet him in his forties, we should at least meet half way. Am I right? What do you think?

Don't be mean to me, I love him that's why I married him, and our marriage is fine, but I just want to work on this. And I figured someone might know what to do, instead of preaching me.