refuses to see me? My future daughter-in-law was in a car accident several weeks ago. She is okay, but had to stay in the hospital. When I went to visit her, her mother angrily told me to leave and not to come back, due to the fact that her daughter and I have never gotten on. Even though I thought FDIL's mother was out of line, I stayed away. FDIL is out of the hospital now, so I asked my son what her favorite flowers were and sent them, along with a book that I know she wanted to read to her. I was not thanked for the flowers and FDIL sent the package right back to me. I picked up the phone to ask my son what was going on and he said she didn't want to see me. I admit that I have had misgivings about this girl from the start, but now they seemed justified.