Do you make your future partners suffer because of your ex partners mistakes?

[Rainbows]

Rewind the Clock 5 years, you where in love, it was perfect, all the sudden your "perfect partner" cheats on you, leaves you, or disappears on you for no reason you can figure out, so you become insecure, afraid of committing, then fast forward to the present, you meet the most wonderful person, and they think you are too, but since you have this fear you become controlling, deceitful, manipulative, because you think you do not deserve this love or the same thing will happen again.

How many of you are guilty of this action and what where the consequences of it?

[GoldDigger]

ALL my past boyfrends WERE controling.... manipulating... an cheating.... an my way of handling it is to not have any more partners!!! i can do fine on my own an im not missing anything...