Ok, so i'm 21 years old and my longest relationship has been 4 months. Pathetic i know...no jokes about this please, this whole thing has really lowered my confidence a whole lot and really depresses me. I love it when I have a boyfriend...it's the best feeling ever. Having a boyfriend seems to be when I am most happy. But it also seemsto be the reason we break up always leads back to me being so shy. I mean, I'm so shy even around my best friend and some people that I've known forever. Why is this?? No matter how hard I try-especially with a guy I like or am dating-I never talk. I know this frustrates a lot of people I know, but I just can't help it. I just wanted to know guys, Do you even like shy girls to begin with? Are there any real qualities that attract you to a girl?