Me and her father have joint custody and she is with both of us she has a room at both homes and she's 8. Well his girlfriend-recently turned wife...is always calling for him.. I didint have a problem with her at first but she started questioning my daughter and now shes popping up with him when he comes to pick up my daughter for visitation exchange. I really dont care for her questioning my daughter about what happened during the time she was with me...She also does my daughters hair ..she put a harsh chemical perm in her hair. I guess her father allowed her to do it but nothing was said to me about it... and i didnt appreciate it...so i took her to court.....is this petty? I dont want any trouble but she keeps coming to my door....so i called the cops and got a restraining order..but she still calls! and asks to speak to my daughter and i slam the phone down....like am i wrong?