Im 25 weeks and my cousin wants to throw me a babyshower. she asked me today who i wanted to invite so she can figure out what she has to do in order for it to be a "special day" for me. (im due in nov) the baby's father is not around but when he was we both had plans to invite his family and my family. im starting to feel like i dont even want a shower anymore and now that i have to give my cousin a list of names i dont know who will really show and who wont. should i even bother sending the babys father a invite and his family or just leave it alone?