jamaicaorchid
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- Jul 25, 2008
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I've worked as a nurse up until having twins last year( joint decision) we also have an older son. I do all the housework & cooking he occasionally helps with dishes( maybe once a week) & will do laundry if there is something he wants washed, but he refuses to pick up after himself. He leaves his clothes on the floor where he takes them off sometimes will even lay them beside the clothes hamper instead of put them in, leaves his wet towels wherever, & coke cans , paper towels & other trash wherever. All I ask of him is to pick up after himself , mow the grass, & take out the trash? Is this unreasonable? Tonight after simply asking him to pick up a towel he says, " I'll be glad to help u out even though I work all day & you stay home all day" I feel like his maid , it's hard enough just picking up after 3 kids much less an adult. I feel like he has no respect for me. If i say anyhing it just makes him mad no matter how I bring it up. I don't want him to resent me or me him??????