my husband left the house around 8pm and by 1am he is still out. So I put the...

[browneyes]

...kids in car to drive around? looking for him. So I went by my sister house because she called me about a party that she is having. When I got there, I saw my husband pull up on his bike with a girl wearing a mini skirt on the back. So I went over to him, and ask him who is she and where have he been. The girl came off the bike and said let me explain. So I told her to shut and leave. My husband said he was just taking her to the party (my sister party) and she is just a coworker. Do you think he is messing with her.

[bettym]

Why is a married man with children leaving the house a 8 PM and at 1 AM giving a co-worker a ride on his bike to a party? It doesn't make much sense. Did you ask your sister if he was at her party before he brought this woman to the party? Where does your husband claim he was from 8 PM - 1 AM and why was he out all night while you were at home with the kids? Is your husband in the habit of doing this?

I don't know if he is messing with her, but it sounds like you have some real problems in your marriage.