without him lying to me? I have known this guy for 15yrs. We have been in and out of a relationship for the past 9yrs. Last year he really broke my heart. This girl comes along and says that she is pregnant with his baby and he ends up marring her. 6 months after they were married, she told him that the baby wasn't his and then everything went down hill between them after that. Now, he has comeback to me a year later telling me he's sorry and he's divorcing this girl. He also says that he still loves me and wants me back. We have been talking for the past 4 months now. He tells me he loves me all of the time but he never really shows it anymore like he used to. I am just wanting to know how I can get him to open up to me and let me know if he really does love me or not. I can't move on unless I know for sure that he really doesn't love me anymore.