Why my husband never buys me a gift or says i love u?

i am married for 3years now and my huband never buys me a gift or flowers or even a card for my birthday,valentine's day or even our anniversary. He never says to me 'i love you" or "i miss you" when he travels or even shows me the feeling that he loves or miss me or even cares.
i never asked him for anything, it hurts me soo much, i talked to him about this but he doesnt show me any care and even hurts my feelings more,so i stopped talking to him about this anymore and tried not to think about this too much but i cant. it really makes me soo sad and think of divorce.