my family is aware that I? got married last week. We live on opposite coast and it's hard for them to accept me as an adult. I moved away years ago the minute that I was mature enough to live on my own and never moved back. Now everybody out there still thinks that I am a kid. When I was pregnant with my daughter, I pretty much kept that a secret too and just went home when I was 8 months and let my belly speak for itself...Boy, did that go over well... I haven't told them that we got married because first of all because my mom is aware of some of the problems that my then fiancee had in the past and she is totally not a marraige minded individual to say the least. Also my grandmother divorced my grandad back in the 50's and never remarried...They all think that marraige is an insane thing for a smart woman to do. How do I or should I ever fess up? Really I want to. But I don't want to hear any negative comments from them. Should I just keep my business to myself??