My father is dying, and the dr's have given him weeks to live. (he doesn't know how long he has, at his request) He had some money come in, and decided to buy my sister a car. This money was supposed to go for dads funeral expenses. Still my sister bought the car closest to the amount of money available.

I told her I was angry, now she has told my father and he thinks I am jealous. She told my mother who thinks I was wrong to confront my sister at this time, because of my Dad being sick.

My husband says he now will not put a penny towards the funeral, and when the family complains, I can tell them that my sister shut me out of all decisions and info and then used the funeral money for a car.

I need to make sure my father gets a decent funeral. Not a ritzy one, but respectable. Even though he made a BAD decision in getting a car for my stsr, he still should have a decent service.

How do I deal with all this and get people to at least see things from my point of view? Thanks