I do- I am trying to decide what's worse- being compared to someone older, younger or around the same age as you, or being compared to someone in a different race or culture, or gender, or being compared to someone who ISN'T a Christian.

What does a 30-something have in common with someone 18-21, or someone in their 20s? That's a big generation gap, IMO. Why would I want to be compared to someone OLDER than me?

I'm African-American- why would I neccessarily want to be compared to someone white or in another race or culture? Why would I want to be compared to other blacks who act like negative black stereotypes?

Why would I want to be compared to people who aren't Christians?

What does what I do have to do with these other poeple?

Why would I want to be compared to women? Seriously- I'm not trying to sound racist or misogynistic- I'm trying to make a point.