Heartbroken and need to vent?

shay

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I am 27 yo married 5 years with 1 child and I don't know what gave me the idea to create a fake Facebook page to spy on my husband. Well he added me as this fake person and I flirted with him and he flirted back wanting sex. Telling this fake person how he is not married and he never was married. He been single for a year. Not only that there was a pic of a gurl sitting on his lap who he said was his old boo. He also said he had orgies and this hurt do much. We were to meet up him abd this "fake" person ofcourse but I showed up and asked him how could he go this and he tried to play it off. I told him I want a divorce and went home.....

Things got ugly that night. For the first time in a long time he actually came home. I forgot to mention he is never home. He spends the night out every night. I just want to confront this lady who he seem to be cheating on me with but idk that to say cuz I am so emotional. Thus lady has a little gurl and I fear it's his baby when he keep saying its his goddaughter but he was with them on thanksgiving and in the pics he is kissing her up and not to mention the baby name start with the same letter as his name. He bought this baby a toy similar to what our daughter have. I hate this man so much cuz he has these things on Facebook where all his family and friends see and I look like a freaking fool. I want a divorce but he keep saying he not letting me go but I'm in the process of seeking a lawyer I don't want to work on us. There is nothing to fix. The whole marriage was a lie. I can't trust him for nothing. Everytime I think of him I think of her and that baby and I can't keep pretending.
 
Dang. When I last spied on someone on facebook, I found out he was in the Yakusa and was known as a serial killer.

He was bragging about being in a death squad and was planning a vacation to somalia to behead some pirates and post it on youtube.

Now I think your husband is more extreme in that he actually visits the graveyard everytime a college girl gets burried.
 
Anytime it comes to a point to where you even entertain the idea of a fake profile then it is time to let it go because marriage is built on trust so without that there is no real marriage. You probably already knew something was going on already. I would leave because its not worth being with someone you can't trust.
 
I am so sorry. But this guy isn't the man you fell in love with once a long time ago. You need to think about your daughter and her happiness too. It isn't fair. You should move on and find someone bettter. Good luck.
 
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