My fiance and I met on the site over a year ago and closed our accounts several months back. About once a month, he gets an email from a female profile and each email says they have responded to his questions. I haven't received ANY emails from the site since closing my account and he claims they are spam. I can't find anywhere online that anyone else having this complaint, yet if he were up to no good, he wouldn't be honest and show me these messages when they come in. I know eHarmony makes it difficult to close accounts and a lot of people say it's a scam, but has anyone experienced emails from the site saying someone has answered your questions if you aren't even sending people questions? They look exactly like the real ones I got while I was still on the site. I don't need judgments on my "lack of trust", please.