"Consent" in pornography: an analogy with combat sports

[mistered]

I think you should consider some counselling then.

[Maurog]

I know exactly what it means - and the fact someone puts their judgement on what someone else calls "stimulating" does not make it objectifying.

[TheDictionary]

who knew this would be such a hot topic for everyone!

[tommysgirl]

You can't understand porn unless you go to southern California.

Just had to say that because I think if we substituted the name of some ninja move for porn, this thread could easily be moved to the ninja section and no one would notice.

[monicalei]

What you did there...I see it

[basketballstar7]

Unfortunately mate, it's pretty clear you don't. Objectifying =/= titillating/sexy/attractive.

If you can't get your head around that then this conversation will have us both urinating in the wind.

[KatieJe]

It means treating someone as an item or thing with little respect for their individuality or dignity and it has been on that basis I have been discussing

[alsaser]

Well then why are we even arguing?

[ninjawarrior]

whenever I think of video games causing violence I always think the ones who started world war 1 and world war 2 didnt have our video games.