First off, asshole comments will be ignored.
I'm gonna try and explain this easy, but I'm kinda confused on how to do that. Oy.

The probably I'm having is I'm getting random updates on my phone and on FB that have nothing to do with me. I know if I'm tagged in something I'll get a notice and I know that I can set FB up that so that I do get a notice if someone on my Favorites list does something. (I'm not too sure if that's the right name for it) And sometimes I get an update and it'll say its recent but I know for a fact sometimes that pictures/shares/status/etc. are days/weeks old. I have no idea what to do, or if I should do anything about it.