My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months now. Now let me start out by saying we met in a college course and since then dates, are not only limited, but don't feel like dates. My first problem is our lack of time together, I hardly see her besides the class, maybe once every two months if I'm lucky. But I'm trying to be understanding she has a lot on her plate even outside of school. Anyways, the real problem to me is the no PDA, and I mean none. In class she tends to stay away from me because I really only distract her. Which is understandable, I did talk a lot during the course. Yet, on the few "dates" we've been on they've been less than good. In fact, kinda bad. I took her to watch a movie, and I tried holding her hand as we walked but she refused. After the movie, we went to a restaurant and I called her "darling" and she got upset. Then she told the waiter we were good friends? Followed by calling me "bro"? At first I thought she just saw me as a friend, but as soon as I got home my phone had about 3 text messages from her with some really raunchy messages.
Needless to say I really need some help, she's a great girl, but I'd like to see her more often. And maybe have some small PDA, like the cute names or holding hands. I'd even settle for not being just a friend in public. It's quite disheartening, because I feel like she's ashamed of me when I know she's not.
Any advice?
Needless to say I really need some help, she's a great girl, but I'd like to see her more often. And maybe have some small PDA, like the cute names or holding hands. I'd even settle for not being just a friend in public. It's quite disheartening, because I feel like she's ashamed of me when I know she's not.
Any advice?