some say bro's before hoes, but i donno...I had a female buddy that was in town with her friend , so me and some of my male buddies decided we would all meet up at a club later that night with them. Everything went fine had a good time and all my buddies knew i like her, but wasn't really sure about her. Later that night she calls me crying about her friend making her walk alone to pick up car in the parking lot and i guess some guys was trying to holla at her and she got scared. So i was trying to confer her and stuff. now this was about 2 months ago and me and her have been talking off and on....fast forward to today she tells me that on that same night we went out she had sex with one of my buddies at the hotel they was staying at after she got off the phone with me. They all know im a christian and have change my ways and during those two months they never told me anything about it. She says she felt bad cause she cared for me as a friend and that my male buddy didn't want me to find out. My thing is this if you my buddy and you know a girl i like is a hoe why don't you just tell me instead of having me look like a sucker and keep talking this women. And she always calls me about her problems and stuff and says she trying to get her life right and stuff and then i find all this out. Shouldn't i even be mad at my male buddy? Should I be mad at my female buddy i use to like but she was never my girl. but for some reason i'm not feeling neither of them right now...need some opinions