TheProfessional1
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- Apr 30, 2013
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After being happily single for 3 years, playing the field having ALOT of fun I think I'm ready to have a relationship again. I don't know why, but I can feel it inside me. This started in December.
I have a few options, 2 stand out tho.
One is gone for now, her ex messed her up a bit so not ready for me right now. (Mutual I know well enough not to mess with a broken heart she has to heal on her own and in her own time)
The other Ive been working at for a few months, she was challangeing. but we have had a couple dates, she even initicated the first one, we have slept together, I'm away for work for a couple weeks (as usual). We had plans for when I get home next week, but I feel like she pulled away suddenly. I think I was too distant while I have been away.....
Now what?
I am not rushing into a relationship. I am taking my time, I don't ask girls out, I build the relationship until it is one, until that times comes we are totally single free to do as we wish.
The main question is do I suddenly show her more, I'm worried about pushing her away if I do that. But I know being distant isnt working lol.
I have a few options, 2 stand out tho.
One is gone for now, her ex messed her up a bit so not ready for me right now. (Mutual I know well enough not to mess with a broken heart she has to heal on her own and in her own time)
The other Ive been working at for a few months, she was challangeing. but we have had a couple dates, she even initicated the first one, we have slept together, I'm away for work for a couple weeks (as usual). We had plans for when I get home next week, but I feel like she pulled away suddenly. I think I was too distant while I have been away.....
Now what?
I am not rushing into a relationship. I am taking my time, I don't ask girls out, I build the relationship until it is one, until that times comes we are totally single free to do as we wish.
The main question is do I suddenly show her more, I'm worried about pushing her away if I do that. But I know being distant isnt working lol.
