Help: How do I get a nerdy guy to like me?

Sam

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*I'm sorry for the long story.*

Okay so there's this guy in my AP Government class that I'm starting to like. I'm not going to lie, he's a pretty nerdy kid. He's into anime, cosplay, science fiction, get's straight A's, teachers love him, all that good stuff. Last week we were assigned to be partners for a project and at first I was pretty disappointed because I wanted to be paired up with one of my friends, but I was kinda glad since he's the smartest guy in our class. After we were assigned to be partners we talked for a bit and decided that we were going to going to work on the project at his house. Later that afternoon I drove to his house, which I found out is about a block away from mine (I know, weird right? We've lived in the same neighborhood for years and I never noticed). When I got to his house no one answered the door but I heard someone in the back so I decided to go back there, I walked there and saw him in his pool. I caught him by surprise and he told me that he wasn't expecting me so early, then he got out the pool to grab a towel and the first thing I noticed was his INCREDIBLE body, I never noticed but he's pretty damn hot. We went inside and he told me to just grab a seat so I sat down on the couch and all across the house was his trophies for lacrosse, debate and other stuff. I asked him if he had any ideas for the project and he told me: "Oh, I already have like twelve different ideas in my head but I just wanted to run them by you and see which one you like the best." We talked about the project ideas for a few minutes and he let me chose the one I liked the best and told me I didn't have to worry about doing anything and that he'll just do the whole thing himself since he's got a lot of free time. After that he told me that I could go home if I wanted. I don't know why, but I decided to stay and chat for a little. I started asking him questions about himself and I was pretty amazed at what I learned about him. He's fluent in French, president of the debate team at my school, has a genius level IQ, got accepted into six Ivy League schools but instead he's going to the U.S. Air Force Academy, he goes L.A.R.Ping and ton of other interesting stuff. Honestly I thought all of the nerdy stuff was kind of cool. Ever since then I've been over his house two times to help with the project (And talk to him a bit more), and now I'm starting to like him.

I've never really been interested in the nerdy, quiet, super-smart type guys. I'm into the jock, athletic, popular type dudes, but this guy is very interesting. He's smart, very handsome, interesting, polite, a gentleman and actually kind of sweet. I invited him to my pool party next week but he declined saying: "I'm not really a party person, I'd rather stay home and get this project done." Which disappointed me because I really wanted him to come over. I'm starting to really like him but I'm not sure if he's interested in me or not. He doesn't have a lot of friends so I can't ask anybody to see if he likes me or not and we don't hang around the same social group.

I just wanted to know how I can get this guy. I've never dealt with this type of guy before and I really want to get to know him a lot better. I'll admit I'm not smart as him, but I consider myself attractive and I hear guys like him care more about intelligence than anything else. What can I do to get him to notice me? How do I dress, act, anything to make me more desirable to him? I would really appreciate any and all advice, it would be a real help.

Thank you
 
You put this in the wrong section; it should be under Singles and Dating, (you'll get much better responses if you re-post the question there.)
 
that was no short story
and to get him become him act nerdy see what he likes
 
Damn in the beginning it seemed like the beginning of a porno, anyways just ask him out or review some cleavage to get his attention.
 
Honestly just be yourself :) you shouldn't have to change for anybody to like you because then they wouldn't really be liking YOU.. if that makes sense ><?
Just talk to him more, flirt with him, just don't change.
 
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