gay guys! how do you do it?

[anon]

i need help with girls. more girls are starting to notice me. which i am flattered but at the same time i feel uncomfortable. they ask me out, flirt me, ect. and im trying to be normal but i cant. i don't want to seem awkward. now when i see girls i don't try to make eye contact with them just so they wont approach me to flirt with me. what do i do? how do you remain calm when other girls fllirt with you? i had this gay friend who would always play along and be flirty with them. i wasn't out at the time so obviously he couldn't ask him.

i don't want to come out either. at least not until i have closer friends.

[MissDirecTED]

you either have it:

or ya don't !