I hate this phrase but I do "wear the pants" in the relationship. I'm soft butch/androgynous and she's the lady. We're 18 and 20. We started talking a month ago but have only been dating for a week. We're still in that awkward new couple stage and haven't had sex yet so since it's nothing too serious I don't want to come on too strong. I really do like her though so I don't want to be cliche and go the chocolate + flowers route. Something sweet and simple maybe, but what?