I flirted with a gay...?

With " a gay". What the heck is "a gay"? That sounds about as disrespectful as a man calibg women " females". Like they aren't human. I think you need to work on how you word things so people won't get confused.

How did you come to the conclusion that he was gay and flirting with you...several months after it happened?

I am gay, and I can't imagine trying to flirt with someone by telling them they "have an awesome beard."

If the conversation didn't go any further, maybe he just thought you had an awesome beard...and he thought you were gay and flirting with him when you told him "you have awesome hair?"

If I were flirting with a guy, and wanted to compliment him on his looks, I might take a different route...but one that would clearly tell him that I found him attractive. Like: "damn...I have a pair of jeans like those, but I'm kinda glad I didn't wear 'em tonight 'cause you would've put me to shame!"

I worked a corney line with a guy who had beautiful blue eyes once when I said "I hope you've got sunglasses...'cause you gotta protect those gorgeous eyes of yours." Needless to say it worked...but of course I was at a gay club, so...

Hmmm so what is your question? I'm guessing you asking if you are gay ? My answer is yes. You seem pretty happy about him flirting with you ..

I don't quite understand the question, either. Are you asking whether or not your comment was also interpreted as "flirting" as well?

give him a slap in the booty