Hi, I have 3 childern age 4, 2, and 8 months. My oldest is having bad tantrums and whining when she doesnt get her way. My middle child is starting to pick up on that and is doing the same thing. She isnt a terrible kid she just has a fit when she doesnt get her way or what she wants and I dont know what to do about this. She isnt in school yet she is starting this fall and I dont want this kind of behaivor in school. I have tried time outs and spankings and I have even tried bribing her I have tried talking to her and taking things away. Noting works with her! I dont know what to do, any help/advice would be excellent! Thanks!!