So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Our anniversary was only about a week ago.
I've been wanting to work on myself to keep our relationship strong.
We have a good relationship but it has it's faults.

I tend to vent(b!tch) to my boyfriend alot about problems, etc.
And I need advice on what guys do and dont want to hear.

Sometimes I feel I'm too clingy too.

I basically just want to know what helps most in a relationship from the girls side.
Like things I could do to be a "cool girlfriend"
I tried asking my boyfriend how I could be less crazy like getting after him for stupid things
and I think he thought it was a trap...