I have been with my guy for almost one year but we have many issues and so many arguments he is good to me at times but I wonder if that is enough. I want a guy that's kind, sweet, giving, non argumentative, and would rather cuddle and make out than argue. Im not perfect but im a great women. I am over 30 and I have kids, I sometimes think I may not find that special guy that is compromising caring and will love me and my kids. Maybe that's why I put up with so much of my boy friends crap. Any positive advice on preventing arguments and debates.