I knew he smoked weed before I got with him so I can’t really complain because I knew what I was getting myself into. I asked that he be respectful though and not do it near or around me so If I’m over he’ll go outside or to a different room and get high. it makes me mad because we don’t really get to spend a lot of time together and I would hope that he could at least refrain from doing it for the little time that I’m there visiting. Also, there have been a few occasions where we have checked into nice hotels to spend a romantic day together (anniversary, etc) and he always brings his weed. He says he does it because he enjoys it not because he needs to but im starting to think its an addiction. the fact that he can’t NOT do it for ONE night and the fact that being with me and spending time with ME isn’t enough for him to enjoy himself. its just disappointing. what are your thoughts???