Interested in a guy at my work. Advice please?

[sparksfly]

There is this really beautiful man that I work with at a restaurant. He approaches me every so often and asks me how im doing and taps me, helps carries dishes for me and what not. He seems interested but the only thing, is i hear hes a ladies man... So, im not sure if i should ask him to go for coffee or something. Or just leave it because he probably doesn't have good intentions anyway. But I think he is amazing and i'd love to date him, plus he is nice.

Any suggestions?

[SassySloth]

I don't think you should date anyone you work with. It would really complicate things, and in the end if you guys ever did become a thing - Most likely one of you would end up not being able to work at the restraunt anymore.

I was interested in a guy probably a month ago - We both worked at a horse stable and He would help me with my barn chores like watering the horses etc. Because it took a lot of strength to carry around huge buckets of water. He was always really nice to me, so sweet and offered to do lots of things for me.

Then, I guess he failed at doing some of his own work one day and my trainer had a talk with him and he said he was distracted. I later found out he brought out a girl a few days later to the barn. At that point I was like whatever, no big deal. Then he found me on facebook, added me and he has had this girlfriend for 11 months. During the period he was flirting with me he had posted that he was having problems with his girl. So basically, I was just something to keep his mind off of his girlfriend or something.

I would forget about it, as much as he is cute

[7mm08]

hit that

[ZachK]

Date him, sure! That doesn't mean you have to MARRY the guy! Keep on guard, take it slow, why not?